Does parameter order matter with tar?

Whether the order matters depends on whether you start the options with a minus

$ tar -cfvz casual.tar.gz snapback.txt bucket.txt
tar: casual.tar.gz: Cannot stat: No such file or directory
tar: Exiting with failure status due to previous errors

$ tar cfvz casual.tar.gz snapback.txt bucket.txt
snapback.txt
bucket.txt

This unusual behavior is documented in the man page

 Options to GNU tar can be given in three different styles.
 In traditional style
 ...
 Any command line words that remain after all options has
 been processed are treated as non-optional arguments: file or archive
 member names.
 ...
 tar cfv a.tar /etc
 ...
 In UNIX or short-option style, each option letter is prefixed with a
 single dash, as in other command line utilities.  If an option takes
 argument, the argument follows it, either as a separate command line
 word, or immediately following the option.
 ...
 tar -cvf a.tar /etc
 ...
 In GNU or long-option style, each option begins with two dashes and
 has a meaningful name
 ...
 tar --create --file a.tar --verbose /etc

tar, which is short for "tape archive" has been around before the current conventions were decided on, so it keeps the different modes for compatibility.

So to "absorb Linux", I'd suggest a few starting lessons:

• always read the man page
• minor differences in syntax are sometimes important
  • the position of items - most commands require options to be the first thing after the command name
  • whether a minus is required (like tar, ps works differently depending on whether there is a minus at the start)
  • whether a space is optional, required, or must not be there (xargs -ifoo is different from xargs -i foo)
• some things don't work the way you'd expect

To get the behavior you want in the usual style, put the output file name directly after the f or -f, e.g.

$ tar -cvzf casual.tar.gz snapback.txt bucket.txt
snapback.txt
bucket.txt

or:

$ tar -c -f casual.tar.gz -z -v snapback.txt bucket.txt

or you could use the less common but easier to read GNU long style:

$ tar --create --verbose -gzip --file casual.tar.gz snapback.txt bucket.txt